HER Complete Guide: Everything You Need in 2026
What is HER and who is it for?
HER is a dating and social app built by and for LGBTQ+ women and queer people. It's designed for lesbian, bisexual, queer women, and non-binary individuals looking for dates and community. The key thing that sets HER apart from other dating apps is its combined dating and social feed where you can post updates and join community events.
How to create a winning HER profile
Engage with the social feed, not just the dating section. Active community members get more profile views. Share your identity, interests, and what community means to you. HER users connect over shared experiences. If you're not sure whether your photos are strong enough, tools like Dateup can analyze and enhance them specifically for HER's format.
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Fix My ProfileAvoid these common HER mistakes
The most common mistake on HER is only using the swipe feature and ignoring the social and events features that make HER unique. Instead, focus on quality over quantity and make sure every element of your profile works together to tell a compelling story.
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